I ain’t saying she a gold digger

I think a lot, about everything. I observe even more than I think. Observation is important. You can learn so much by just watching people and their actions. Right now I see a war going on between man and woman. Women are requiring compensation in an exchange for time. More women want men to be givers financially. They are becoming more vocal and aggressive about what they want. “If you want my time you need to pay. I need my hair, nails, and toes, done. You can buy me a new outfit as well”. A typical guys response is “hello no, who are you? I barely even know you. Why do you feel like it’s my job to take care of your grown ass?” Then there becomes a war between man and woman.


What does a man respect most? What is he most loyal to? What will he work his ass off for? What is his most prized possession? MONEY! In a lot of cases the man treats money as if it’s his woman. That’s the only thing that can get 100% of a man’s time, affection, and loyalty. Women aren’t stupid. They pay attention. They want what’s most important to you because it will make them feel some type of importance. I don’t think women do that intentionally. I think they’ve really tricked their minds into thinking they need a man to give them money in order to feel special. No, what the woman needs is love. Since genuine love is so hard to attain women want the next best thing; money. If you ask them why they require money to date them they wont be able to give you a straight answer as to why. It’s a psychological problem.


A man comes along and sells the woman this dream about love and then once the cookies are given he switches up. Leaving women to feel used and alone. With his money he will never switch up. That relationship is consistent. Requiring money in an exchange for time is a woman’s defense mechanism to avoid being played, used, and alone. She feels that if she gets a piece of your most valuable possession it’ll make her feel just as important or at least compensate for the bullshit you’ll put her through. Again, I don’t think women do this intentionally. This is something done unconsciously. It sounds crazy but it’s true. Women aren’t meant to be understood, they were meant to be loved. Notice when a woman is truly in love her demand for goods and money goes down. She’ll take whatever you give her and cherish it. She’ll even give to you. That’s because it was never about the money. It’s about love. This is my theory. A theory I’ve gained through observation. How can we fix this problem? Simple. Men start respecting women as human beings and not sex objects. No matter how she displays herself. Man should always remain a man. Treat her with respect. If you don’t have a real interest in her don’t waste time. Only focus on someone you see potential in. Lets stop using each other for our selfish values and watch the selfish demands decrease. It’s not an overnight process but Rome wasn’t built in a day. It starts with you.

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my name is Tripoli. pronounced TRIP-AH-LEE. Growing up my mother always told me I could be whatever I wanted to be. I believed her, I still do.

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